Do I live in the twilight zone? I mean, really. The ex-(last I heard she was an ex but I’m completely out of the loop so maybe not) girlfriend continues to show up on my FB page, under the list of friends who are on line, or were recently. There is no indication of her being online or that she was recently. But her name and profile pic show in the list.
But we are not FB friends, never have been. We messaged for a short time, when she asked for my email address (because he took the letter out of her mailbox that had my contact info in it). I sent her a friend request when we first contacted.
I deleted the convo, and cancelled the request, since it was still just sitting there. It was not because I don’t like her, I actually do, I think she is nice, and kind, and gracious, and has been beat up by this man beyond compare emotionally. (Even more than me, if that’s possible. Although I run a very close second.) But at first her profile picture on my list of friends just kind of freaked me out, and reminded me of things I’d rather forget. Now, Idk, I guess because she’s still showing up and there’s nothing I can do about it, I’ll just think of her as a friend, energetically. We were both f’d over by the same man, we have an awful lot in common. Perhaps it’s the universe’s way of telling me something.
If she is with him, or considering it, I wish her well, and hope he learned his lesson and doesn’t break her heart again.
Who knows?
I am looking quite forward to going out tonight. Then working on the house this weekend. And getting my summer clothes ready for Florida next week. 🙂 Life is good, still. Always.
Love and light, all.
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Does “he” by any chance, have her password? If so….there you go.
I doubt it. And he’s not really into games like that. I don’t think he could put her on there anymore than I can get her off. He will probably my be appalled that she shows up there to be honest. He hated the fact that we could communicate without him knowing what we said.
Well, if you unfriended her and she no longer shows up, there has to be a way she is getting access. You may like her and even trust her, but you and I both know that there are sides to people we would never suspect.
I never even friended her. She never friended me. I don’t put anything personal up in FB anyway. It doesn’t bother me really. I am sure she did not try to do this. I think it’s a FB glitch. But just seems there is some other power at work here. Whatever. It is what it is. I accept it. She’s not a game player either, less so than him. It’s just one of the mysteries of life. lol.
Hmmm. I’m going to email you shortly. 🙂
I am wondering about the “other” woman now too, she is still my facebook friend but hasn’t answered the last email I send her about three weeks ago, so I am thinking she is back with him and just doesn’t want me to know? who knows, I’m sick of it all!! 🙂
I haven’t heard from Betty since I posted a couple weeks ago the truth about what happened.She had said she’d let me know about his chest x-ray, but I think it was too much for her maybe, to deal with me after that. Which I totally understand. Besides, I have said here, that I don’t want to know how he is, I don’t want to know anything about him which will in any way cord me to him. I have enough trouble with that as it is. Who knows, she may be back with him, though I can’t imagine she could trust him more after finding out that he was with me while he was crying to her. I haven’t heard from him since I sent him an email and told him that his actions negated the possibility of us being even friends. He may have convinced her that I was making it up out of revenge, she might have wanted to buy into that. I don’t know. I do hope she is well, and working her way toward happiness in whatever situation she is in, and that S is not in a position to break her heart one more time. It seems to be his specialty, how he pumps up his ego, to realize someone loves him enough that he can break their heart. Power monger.
LOL! Yes, that too, lol.
If B is back with him, I am fearful for her. He has broken her more times than me, in many cruel ways. Which is why I wanted her to know the truth, so she could make a more informed decision about him. I’ve made mine, and it’s that there is someone in Florida waiting for me, lol.