So, if you have plans to spend Saturday night and Sunday day with someone, and then they ask if you’re available Friday night…..would you think that meant they wanted to spend more time with you? Or would you think it meant instead of Saturday night and Sunday?
I guess it could go either way. I wanted it to be the more time thing. So that’s what I believed it was, until it was clarified. And now I kinda want to cry because it actually means less time.
I wish I could get on the same page with him. I’m always wearing my effing heart on my sleeve while he plays his cards close to his chest.
I can’t change how I feel but I wish I could,until he’s there with me. So I’m not hanging out on that limb with one hand all the effing time.
I guess I’ve come to the realization that despite him not wanting to be with anyone else, he really isn’t all that enthused about us either.
I think I need to back off. I’m way to invested in this. I should have known better.
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Been there, done that, wore the tshirt. At least putting yourself out there, you know what you’re not going to get back. It’s better knowing.
You’re so right. I always think, I don’t want to wonder “what if” I’d told him, what if he knew this. Let him know, make his own decision based on the facts. But sometimes you feel like you’re setting yourself up, you know?
I know the feeling very well and was just on that thought when your comments came through. Hang in there.
Actually, I found out I wasn’t as over-invested as I thought. Turned out we were in about the same place. Which was nice to realize.
Good. I’m pretty intense, myself so I would be over invested. Thanks a lot for following up on this.