Apparently, I can make a big deal out of nothing. I can be stupid and childish. I misinterpret things that are said to mean what they did not.
Friggin ego. Wants us to believe we are under attack. Ego is now on time out. A long one.
Thank goodness he cared enough to fight through it with me, until I could understand the truth. He’s a good man.
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It’s nice that there are so many good men. I even knew one or two out of the thousands of men I have met.
there are really good men, though the one in this blog didn’t turn out to be one of them. I have a real one in my life now (2 1/2 years after posting this blog).
Sucks for you, that he was not as he appeared. But just look at the lesson that you talk about in this post.
How lucky for the next guy!.
Your realization speaks volumes about your emotional self control and awareness. Everybody should be so self aware and thoughtful.
Congrats on that.