This is one of my all-time favorite quotes by Mary Oliver, one of America’s greatest poets, and one of my favorites.
The first box I was given was given to me by my ex husband. It truly took me years to understand that it was a gift. But I do, now, and have for quite some time. The second box of darkness was given to me by Scott, and though I know it is a gift, I haven’t yet felt the gratitude for it. I know it will come.
Because, we can’t know the light if we don’t have dark. So we have to feel gratitude for those who show us the darkness, so that when we get to the light we can more fully appreciate it, and live in it. And share it. I know that the darkness Scott showed me, will allow me to fully appreciate the man who brings light to my life. And then, I’ll be able to feel gratitude for the darkness of the last few months.
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Ahhh, thanks – I like that quote too, although currently sitting in the middle of the darkness with glimpses of light becoming more frequent.
I think it’s important to keep in mind that the light will come….we will both leave the darkness behind at some point.
I am *so* looking forward to that day ❤
Me too…..:-)
I live a life of love, light and laughter. Having depression, I have had plenty of darkness n yes it is a gift. It has made all the good days that much more vivid and happy. Now I’m letting go of a love which at one time was so very special but which now only causes pain n sadness. Why some relationships mean more than others I will never know. But I’m happy to be stepping back into the light. Hugs n healing to u xo!
In hindsight, I have no idea why I was so attached to Scott. But suffice to say I was, crazy in love with him. Glad it’s over and happy to be moving away from it. Glad to hear you are too. xo
Losing our love definitely took me to the brink. Took me so long to accept it and let go. I’m happy without him. Glad you’re moving on too xo.