I’ve been communicating with a guy from a dating site. I told him I’m going to be moving and not looking for any serious kind of relationship. He seems to be a really nice man, but I just spoke to him in the phone and when I hung up all I could think was
BORING.
lol. He wants to take me out to a place down by the shore when I get back from Florida. Idk. He’s nice, definitely not my type though. No connection. So idk if i should bother persuing this convo. It’s a dinner, he knows I have no desire for a relationship, but it feels like using someone to go out just for a free dinner.
Now if the other guy I’ve talked to asked me, Carlo, yeah. Maybe. He’s got a motorcycle. So I don’t think he’s boring anyway. lol.
Crazy.
But then, that’s life. I still think he’s in Florida. Waiting for me. 😊
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Boring. LOL. I don’t think there’s much worse than boring….no wait….I had a temporary lapse of memory……yes there is…..a narcissist!
Agreed! But boring runs a close 2nd. If I went to dinner at the shoe with this guy it would mean tolerating an almost hour drive there and an hour drive back besides a biting dinner convo. Don’t think I can do it. lol. But I’ll go on a motor cycle ride any day. Or, any warm day. Lol n
Yuk. Save yourself for the motorcycle! LOL.
Omg. Now a guy who is 46 and actually seems normal is chatting with me! Probably not boring, but geez….way too young!!
That’s what I would get when I was on that one. Guys ten years younger than I was…..I just told them I wasn’t into the “cougar thing.”
Hey….keep talking to him….you never know!
He seems nice but incited never. He’s almost 20 years younger!!!! Lol. I bet his equipment still works tho…😋
There you go! Sometimes the equipment is worth playing with for a while….OMG….I can’t believe I just said that!
LMAO!!! If only I could be like that. Damn….
ME TOO! 🙂
I am shocked! ! In a good way!! 😁
Maybe I was just wishing I had experienced somebody with good equipment. Geeze. I swear I haven’t been drinking…I guess I’m just a little bit bitchy today. LOL
I’ve had 2 that didn’t work. One I fixed. The other one I couldn’t. lol. I’d be much happier with not having to fix it. And I’m not going in to any more detail!!!
Me either! LOL
Hahaha your replies crack me up Laurel!! 😁 I do understand though… but you know what they say, it ain’t over til it’s over… I know what your reply to that is… but I’ll hold my hope and belief for you for some nice romancing before the last chapters of your blog are finished.. ! 😊💖
Shucks. If I ever did find out what I’ve apparently been missing…I might turn into a big ole ho-bag! LOL.
Seriously, I don’t know how old you are laurel but I had more fun in my 60’s than any other time. I’m still a one man woman but there is like no pressure! A man this age is happy to find a woman who functions, lol. But the problem is a lot of them don’t!
I’m 65. Most people say “I want to see your drivers’ license’ but they’re probably just being kind. I just can’t imagine finding love for the first time at my age…but you never know.
Well it’s my hope!!! 40 years with an abusive asshole and the first guy I fall for is a liar and cheat. But I’m gonna get back up and try again, cuz life wasn’t meant to be miserable. I know there are good guys out there, who are in working condition! lol. And I’m gonna find me one. 😋 I had fun with S til I found out his true nature. If I could find someone like him, sans the lying cheating devious can’t be accountable for anything, can’t stand up on my own two feet thing, and NO NARCISSISTIC TENDENCIES, he’d be perfect! Lol.
LMAO! We really do need to make a pact that these dick-fucks aren’t going to keep us from having a life!
Absolutely! No way will I let them take any more, not one fucking minute more, of my life from me!!!
I hope I can get there. Loser doesn’t take anything actively….he’s still taking it passively…and I HATE IT.
Oh tell him to go fuck himself. 😱😳😋 you come to Florida to see me and we will have some fun.
I’m actually going the last week of March/first week of April. When are you going? And, boy! Could I stand to have some fun!
I’m going next week. 😦 But next year I will LIVE there, lol. I’m going to make Megan and Survived come too….
Well, just let me know and I’ll come down! I can’t think of anything better than having us girls get together and have fun!
I know! It would be so fun!!!
You can for sure. I have a coworker who is 62 and met a lawyer and they got married at Christmas. They are so happy, it CAN happen.
Wouldn’t that be wonderful? 🙂
I don’t think I’ll ever get married again, but to meet my last significant other would be awesome. That’s what in hoping for!
Ha, I said the same thing. I just was looking for a partner, someone to talk to and be with – not even full time, not even live together. So here is to you meeting the man who you both need and want.
Thanks!!! I feel sure he’s walking this way!
Hey…. I don’t know about the long drive etc, if you already feel “boring” vibes… it would be different if maybe for a coffee in town etc.. then you could go spend 40 minutes and that’s that. I would hesitate to go to a long date with Potentially Boring Guy! That is just me! 😊 I also believe he is in Florida!! (The Fun Adventurous Guy, who is not a narc!) 💙
Yeah. Exactly. That’s how I feel. U can do coffee or lunch somewhere local. But no long drives with nothing in common. Yes Florida is calling me in more ways than one!
Go with your gut! 🙂 💙
This is exciting, even if he is boring, at least you know this is not the one. Move on, find another. It is good to know what you do not like.