I have my first showing of my house tomorrow! I was on the phone bitching to a friend that I’d had no showings and when I got off the phone, there was a push notification that I had an appointment request for 11:30 tomorrow. So I went into mad cleaning woman mode, and vacuumed and mopped my son’s floor in the basement. The rest of the house is pretty much as it was for the pictures, so I can finish in the morning. I’m relieved, I was upset that we’d not had any showings. Zillow is estimating the value of my house at $25,000 more than I’m asking, so I hope that’s an incentive!
I went out for a bite to eat with my friend tonight. It was nice to just get out of the house. I didn’t have any alcohol. I’m just afraid to drink with this crazy stomach bug I have. It’s for that reason I didn’t go to my bff’s bonfire tonight. The drinks flow freely there, and I didn’t want to have to explain to everyone why I wasn’t indulging. Plus it was outdoors and it’s quite chilly tonight and I don’t feel like sitting around outside, not when I haven’t been well.
And then….on the way up to my friends tonight I saw a sundog. A single one, but a good long part of the rainbow aura, and the bright spot, to the right of the sun. Sundogs have always foretold good things happening for me. My personal sign of good luck.
Well, off to get a good night’s sleep. I’ll need to start early tomorrow.
Love and light….
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That’s awesome about the first showing of your home! YES! I hope all goes well. It should 🙂
thanks trE! At least it’s some interest!
Yay! Let’s hope they walk in and say “this is it.” I don’t believe I have ever seen a “sundog.” I know you have posted a picture of one before. I think I said then “how can you look at something like that and not feel changed?” Hoping it brings you good luck! 🙂
Thanks! I can’t (look at one and not be changed). Every sundog I’ve seen has been a gift. I won’t see them in Florida. They require ice crystals in the upper atmosphere. It’s been unusually cold here, only going to be 48° here today. So there was some cold air coming in last night. Saw one like in the picture one day when I asked for a sign that everything would turn out ok, back in the middle of my divorce. Saw one the day I found out my Supreme Court ruling would be published on the next Monday. And saw one yesterday, when I was down about the house, missing people I shouldn’t miss, didn’t feel good. Just a gift….always lift my spirits. Big hugs….
OH! So that’s why I’ve never seen one. Maybe I should have known about them when I lived in Boston.
I think when I find that combination of a dime and a penny, it’s a sign….I think the best thing that happened after I kept finding them, was selling my house. I don’t know if anything has happened since I found the pair a few days ago. LOL
Have you been using your pendulums to ask about your house?
Yeah I have, they have kept me reassured. And a dime and penny, I found that twice yesterday!!! Maybe you are having an influence on me!!!
I didn’t see them ever until 5 or 6 years ago. Scott used to say they meant it was going to rain. And it’s raining today, so maybe he was right. He would see them often out fishing. He showed me moondogs one night, sitting on my deck. I wouldn’t have seen them otherwise, they are fainter than sundogs. You can’t see the rainbow aura in the dark, just the bright spots, which I mistook for clouds illuminated by the full moon until I realized they were equidistant from the moon.
I think I may have seen a moondog. I tried to take a picture of it but it didn’t show up.
Yay for finding the dime and penny. I just think there’s something mysterious about consistently finding that particular combination. (Maybe I’m sending you vibes!) LOL
One of those mysterious connections, lol. But yeah, I’m thinking so. Loser was such an idiot to do what he did to you. You are so cool.
I bet he and Scott would be best friends. Until they fucked each other over, lol, because I think that’s what they do….
LOL. They probably would have! I believe that WTC is just as much a narcissist as Loser is. That may be why they have such a “good connection.” LOL
Well, one thing I know is that I left that so-called marriage with my honor and integrity intact….HE didn’t…and she certainly shares his morality…or lack of. 🙂
Absolutely. She apparently plays the game well, but it’s still just a game, it’s nothing real. And him, he’s stupid enough to want the game, to love playing it. Scott is also like that. He kept trying to interest me in playing “Go” an ancient chinese game, in which there are no winners, no losers and everyone saves face. The whole idea was stupid to me. Save face? WTF is that? If I fuck up, then I have to admit it, and change it. There is no face to save if you screw up. Just say I’m sorry and change the behavior. Who cares what the appearance is? Geezus. No wonder he wanted Betty, she probably plays it with him well.
Saving face? LOL I wonder how many lies Loser told that WTC to get her to take him back (she was coming back anyway…her taxes were due…she just had to punish him for a while.) How did he get away with betraying her…with me….? They’re certainly a breed apart. If I had been that WTC (thank God I’m not) there’s no way I would have EVER taken him back….even if if was okay with me that he was married.
I guess I don’t understand how trash works.
I have never heard of that game “Go” but it makes sense when it comes to Scott….but who does it benefit? Him? Betty? There are no winners, no losers, and everybody saves face? What the hell kind of face it that? It’s a face that I wouldn’t be interested in saving. LOL
It serves him, because you don’t have to be accountable for your actions. You can look good, save your fucking face, no matter what you do to someone else. That’s more important than doing the right thing to him. He can’t LOOK bad. He can BE bad. But look it, omg…that’s the worst. To be perceived as he is.
Funny I never felt like I was taking Scott back in January. I was just with him. in the moment. Knowing it was a short term thing, that no matter what i was moving…and that he would probably be pursuing her for a long time into the future. It was just working out some of the rejection and pain he doled out to me. It was saying, yes, it wasn’t you Deb, it was him….What was between you remained, he’s just all fucked up over her…
I don’t know why but it helped.
But saving face?? Geezus. Save me, please from saving face when I’ve screwed up.
Right? THEY can never look bad…they always have to make somebody else look bad…and they’re so damn GOOD at it.
I really hope that someday, in the near future (whether in Florida or if you stop by to see me) we can sit back and have a toast to the obliteration of these scumbags from our lives! 🙂
Um both? Lol. Let’s do both. And toast both times!
Deal! LOL
When you move to your new place..you will have the most gorgeous sunrises and sunsets.
Most of the beautiful colors come from the actual dust from Africa. They can be spectacular.
I miss them.
And if you go to the beach, depending on which one and how busy they are, they are relaxing. Watching people do things too is nice. Just pass the time away and relax. It sounds like you really need relax time.
And if you have the money sometimes a massage is a teriffic thing.
I am looking so forward to it. I am such a beach bum. I spent so much time on the water in my marriage, I miss it. When I move I’ll be a mile away. Should be heaven. I love a good massage. Been awhile….