Okay, the boring guy sent me an email.  He is up at 4 am so goes to bed about 8 or 8:30.  I just don’t think I can do it.  I have such a good life, why spend time with someone who is not in the place I am.  I love life. Not to say he doesn’t but he suffers from what many men this age do.  His world is very limited and he likes it that way.  His big deal is helping his 4th grade grandson with his homework.  Which is all good and admirable, it’s nice.  It’s just not where I am.  I’m too adventurous, too kinky (S’s word to describe me, I’m really not), but way too alternative, aggressive and energetic for him. I seriously think I would freak him out if he got to know me.  I don’t think I’ll answer his next call….I will just send him a message at some point that says I don’t feel a connection, etc.

Been there done that.  I dated a guy last October that seemed fine the first two dates, (a coffee date, and a lunch date) and then we went out to dinner and I couldn’t wait til it was over.  He spent at least an hour of dinner telling me who used to own all the property on the commercial strip the restaurant was on.  50 or 60 years ago.  Seriously, why in the world would I give a shit who owned it half a century ago.  Then when we left he went to put his leftovers in his car and left me to walk to my car alone.  He texted me a bunch the next day telling me what a great time he had.  I was like, What????  say Whattttt???  Thank you for the nice dinner, but I really don’t feel any connection here.

I guess I just have wasted so much time with the wrong men, I can’t stand wasting any more.  Like I said, I have a good life, if they can’t add to it, then c ya….

I haven’t heard from Carlo.  But then Carlo is I think a little odd….I hear from him, then I don’t, then I do.  Long periods in between.  I haven’t figured out what his story is, but actually, if I have to work at that, then c ya…..

I did hear from the 46 yr old, lol.  I told him I was moving and he said, let me know if you need a proper send off, lol.  I would surely go out with him if I was 20 years younger.  He made me laugh, he’s kinda sweet, and nice looking.  He said he’s dated women my age, to let him know if I change my mind.

Maybe I should.  Just for fun.  Probably not, I don’t think I’m that kinky.  LOL. I think all this is just the universe’s way of prepping me for Florida.  🙂

So, I’m home, in my fleece jammies, watching The Voice, with a glass of red wine and some dark chocolate. Not a bad way to end a Monday.  I gotta say work was so sucky today, all I did was put fires out all day, some caused by my boss….but you guys commenting on my last blog had me laughing so hard, I didn’t even notice how stressful it kind of got.

So thank you, lol.  You all saved me today!