I answered the man who sent me the nice message yesterday. It will be interesting to see where that goes, if anywhere. I hope he’s not boring. That is the kiss of death with me, lol. I suppose people might think, don’t you want someone who’s boring, I mean, haven’t I had enough of men who aren’t? Well, no, I believe for some reason that there are men who aren’t boring, who can love passionately too. I have some hope, he paints, so the fact that he is creative usually speaks to whether or not he’s boring. He seemed sincere anyway.
I was thinking yesterday about the last time I went to Florida, last June, to see my mother. I was so angry that S suddenly decided not to go with me, after finding cheap fares, and car rental, etc. It was a no-brainer, to stay for free at my sister’s beautiful home 2 blocks from the ocean. We’d have had the place to ourselves, because my sister and brother-in-law weren’t there then. Suddenly he had a huge change of heart, of course, because B was back in his life and he couldn’t be honest and tell me. I was angry about it for half the summer.
Now, I’m SO GLAD that he didn’t. Now I don’t have any memories of him there with me. There is nothing that will be tainted with a memory of him. Funny how the Universe works that way. It was doing me a huge favor, which I couldn’t see til now.
I’m pretty excited to think about seeing a sunset over the Gulf on Wednesday evening. Long term forecast is perfect for down there.
B is still showing up on my FB list of people available to chat. Though it never shows her available. I guess that we are friends energetically, lol. I hope she’s well. I hope she’s not been sucked in again by him.
Lots to do this weekend, so I guess I’d better get started, lol. Love and light, and laughter, everyone.
Boring…..ugh. I understand. 🙂 I hope you have a great time in Florida!
Thanks! I know I will….and you too when you go! I can’t tell you how good it feels to get out, and be around people. I just remembered something I think I need to add to last nights discussion!
What is it?
I write another blog, lol. It’s there. “Just An Afterthought”.
Oh, yes. I read it. 🙂
I try to tell myself that boring is the new sexy but it just doesn’t work that way! Not for me anyway…. I’ve been on one of those dating websites lately, nothing of interest yet, some nice “boring” men but that is not for me, still stuck on R I think, he will be a very hard (hehe) act to follow! In a sexual way anyway… damn
I chatted with a guy via text this morning, the one in this blog, but boring. So many men are at this age. They just have this limited view of the world that they are comfortable in , and do not want to leave it. I don’t care, I can be happy without a man, even though I’d rather have one. S would not be so hard to beat, it was only so good because I loved him so much. But really, my ex-husband was way better in bed, lol. Both were asses, I need a new set of criteria, lol.