The tears that I cried
Were not for you, but for me.
Laughter takes their place.
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The tears that I cried
Were not for you, but for me.
Laughter takes their place.
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Yes! Come on now, Deb! I love it!
And, I needed to read this at this very moment! 🙂
Oh trE, you know we share so much, and I know this is one of them. It’s so much better of a place to be, laughing. Big hugs to you and Jernee….xoxo
Thank you so much! The two of us are still resting. I’m dreading getting out of bed, but I know I need to soon.
I can’t sleep late. I try…I go to bed later hoping I’ll sleep later. But no…this morning I woke at 5:30 as usual. I stayed in bed for about 20 minutes, trying to sleep longer. Then gave up the fight and had my coffee.
Oh, I’ve been up since 6:00. I’m just not moving from this bed until I feel like it. Lol. 😉
And it’s Saturday…so just enjoy!
I will! I’ve some pieces to edit before they make it to publishing and a few
editing mates to correspond with on another. It’ll be a relaxing, word-filled day. 🙂
the best kind of day. My afternoon will hopefully, be like that. This morning I have to remove all signs of life from my house for a showing at noon, lol.
Good luck! Have fun! And, enjoy what Saturday has to offer! 🙂
Yes! Isn’t it funny the distinct differences when we realize we’re crying for ourselves, and not anyone else. Not as self pity crying, but as a strength and courage builder, a ‘I’m going to be a surviver’ cry. For me, it is when my healing begins.
Thank you for sharing, the timing of it(for me)has me in wonder! hugs*
Yep! Tears are release of the pain, and so healing. I have had times where I wanted to cry and couldn’t, because I was holding onto the pain. But I think at the moment, I’m done crying. Hope you are too! Let’s laugh…..
Yes! Let’s laugh again!
Ha. I’m not sure how to read this….Loser cried all the time. I would tell him he was crying for himself and nobody else. He was having a pity party….poor guy…..he got caught….and I wouldn’t forgive him.
I can’t cry…..I did think about buying one of those punching bags, though…..you know……for decoration. LOL
Well, this was about MY tears, lol. And I think a punching bag….might make some interesting decor, lol.
Oh. I’m lost on things like the “L” word and tears…..I have no idea about those….LOL
I think on people like him and my ex it’s all manipulation. Everything my ex did was a manipulation. As he fell deeper into alcoholism he could cry easier. But he could also smack his kid. So it was all self pitying bs when he cried. As far as S, I think he wanted me to think he was capable of crying but he’s really incapable of that much emotion usually. Although for all of them, there are probably those moments that glimmer, when they realize how they’ve fucked up their lives and really wish they’d done differently. Then the ego takes back over…..
Does it make any sense to you when I say “I’d really like to meet that asshole?” LOL
I’d just like to look at him for about a minute and watch his body language….then probably laugh at him and walk away…..
I’ll send you a pic, you can do it energetically. 😛
Deal! 🙂
Ok in a few minutes….
Oh man I’m realizing how pissed off this convo will make him if he reads it and he probably will. Oh well, like Anne LaMott says, if people wanted you to write kindly about them, they should have treated you better, lol.
Oh well, if he or “she” reads this…..here’s a message for them….FUCK OFF!
Lol! I don’t really care if either one reads any of this. If it irritates them they should stop. It’s just that when he gets angry he gets irrational and probably will feel the need to leave me a nasty voice mail. But I guess that’s what the delete function is for. 😳🙃😱
Well, it’s like you said….if you don’t like what you read….stay off my flipping blog! LOL