I was going to do house cleaning anyway, it’s the first day I have been able to since my surgery. But I am going to empty it of any vestige of him, there will be nothing around to remind me of him. Except…you know the furniture. The places we spent time together, the deck, the family room, the bedroom, the kitchen. Those memories will have to just fade away.
I have some white sage smudge sticks. I will set one up in every room we spent time in, and clean the energy. It will help me to forget him. It will help my anger. It will help my hurt. Thank God I have some knowledge of how to deal with energy.
I will ask a friend to send me reiki. She helped me after the prison whore, when I thought I was gonna die. She will help me again this time. I can do self-reiki too.
I can get productive. I can make plans with friends for tonight. Hopefully for tomorrow. and Monday. But I’m gonna get my house spotless, clean out my garage, if my hand can take it. Gonna sit out on the deck and try to get into a deep meditation, on releasing the past. Releasing the pain.
I texted with S a little this morning, I wanted to know how long…he has only talked to her, and for 3 days. But he stopped answering me, I was a bit to caustic I guess. But in the same way I wear my heart on my sleeve, I also wear my anger and my pain. And the truth. He disappeared. I don’t care.
That was cool to write. I DON’T CARE. It just came out of me with real ease. Without any thought. I don’t care.
At least not right now.
I’m so glad my son is gone for the weekend. I’m so glad he will never have to know about this. He hates S for the amount he’s hurt me. Just seriously can’t stand him. My son has seen me get so hurt in his lifetime, he can’t understand why I would continue to see someone who continues to hurt me, and use me for his own benefit. And the kid is right. I’m just glad he’s gone. I won’t ever tell him, S has not been around in weeks, so he will just leave it be and be glad he isn’t around now.
I’m going to be fine.