It’s a beautiful morning this morning. Cool, not cold, the leaves are beginning to turn in earnest, and the sunrise painted the sky. (I took the pic from my deck at about 6:30). Promises to be a good day.
I went to a gong bath last night. It was really good to see my old friend. She had such a struggle in the past years, but has come out on the other side whole, with even more compassion than ever, more love than ever. The energy in the room was calm, healing. She has done some interesting things since she recovered from her cancer and her long time (20+ years) ended. She told me she used to ask herself why all this happened to her, and really struggled with it. She came to the conclusion she may never know and she’s no longer asking. I smiled at her and said, “You always used to tell me I didn’t need to know….” And she laughed, because she walked through a lot of my divorce/custody stuff with me. She was not a close close friend, but was kind of a spiritual adviser. Through her I found the gongs, found meditation, found a path that has worked for me.
The gongs worked their magic. I went to purposefully try to make some sense, in my heart, of my relationship with S. I think I was able to do that, though it will probably take some time to settle out. When it was over, I realized my eyes and eyelashes were moist I had not known that I had been crying at all. I felt kind of drained….but knew that that feeling would not stay, I knew that it was just emotions being released, and replaced, and acknowledged.
Yesterday I saw two sundogs….once on the way to work, once while I was at lunch. I was texting with S, and the conversation ended badly. He seemed angry, I was frustrated. During that conversation I saw the second sun dog. They have always been a good sign for me, a sign that everything will be ok. That there is a greater power, that can do miraculous things like put an aura around the sun, and that the world is indeed unfolding as it should. (In case you have never seen one, this is a google pic. I only saw one, the one to the right of the sun. It showed as a sideways rainbow, with a glowing spot in the middle.)
As I said to my friend…we don’t have to know why, just accept enjoy the fact that they exist. Accept and enjoy our lives. When one door closes another will really open, the universe is conspiring to bring us what we ask for.
My prayer has always been that I would know the love of a good man before I die. I still believe that is coming toward me. I’m guessing that things not working out with S, if they don’t, has been so that I have room in my heart for the right man when he shows up. And that maybe I’ll be able to recognize him when he does. I still will always love S, but I know I can let go of any dream I had that he was the one.
Anyway, I’m not sure the story with S is fully written. I’ll just see what happens, and follow my intuition and my heart. I’ll continue doing those things that make me stronger, meditating, gong baths, connecting with people, writing, being creative, taking care of my house, celebrating that I have a rich full life.