Strength
Measured in lies
Measured in pain caused
Measured in lives destroyed
Is weakness.
Is less than zero.
Strength
Measured in open hearts
Measured in joy given
Measured in lives connected
Is power.
Is heaven on earth.
Courage
Measured in willingness to lie
Measured in willingness to deceive
Measured in willingness to devastate
To crush, to harm
Isn’t courage.
It’s cheap cowardice.
It’s emptiness of a soul.
Courage
Measured in Willingness to to be honest
Measured in willingness to trust
Measured in willingness to show oneself
And be seen, truly be seen
Is courage.
It is wealth of spirit,
It is fullness of soul.
Which have you been
The weak morally bankrupt coward?
Or the courageous, powerful rich spirit?
Which are you?
Which will you be?
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Are you ok?
I’m fine. I read that narc’s post today about how powerful he was and it is so screwed up, his perceptions are so flawed, I just had to say something. What he thinks is power is weakness, and what he perceives as weakness is our greatest strength. My particular narc believes the same, and thought because I loved him so much I’d be too weak to make him tell his gf or to stand up for the truth. So I was just trying to make a point…that real strength and courage come from love and vulnerability. Not from lying, deceiving, and destroying people.
What narc? I missed it.
This one…survivednarc linked to this blog for the purposes of education, it’s written by a self-proclaimed narc and it just disgusted me. He has a whole lot of posts, I barely got through this one. It’s not that it angered me, it’s that it totally disgusted me.
https://narcsite.wordpress.com/2015/12/23/the-futility-of-your-feeling/
Yeah he’s pathetic. But some are interesting. It’s seeing into the mind of a monster. They literally use people for fuel!!