I had a romantic notion, I guess, of what a twin flame was. I was horrified to think that someone who is so wrought with his own emotional problems, deep-seated issues that he can’t figure out himself, that cause him to act in ways that are hurtful to himself and others, could be my twin flame.
This morning, it doesn’t matter. It is, what it is. If he doesn’t mature spiritually, we will not connect in this lifetime. That journey is his to travel. I will continue on my path, he on his. Maybe in some lifetime we will connect. I don’t think in this one, though I can’t possibly know when we will connect.
Maybe I’ll find out that he’s really not my twin flame. Maybe there are coincidences after all, and none of them are signs.
Though, my intuition tells me differently.
The relationship with him is rife with signs, but if he doesn’t read them, and only I do, it doesn’t matter. Or, if he reads them but discredits them, it doesn’t matter.
My intuition tells me that it just doesn’t matter here, in the present moment, what his soulful relationship to me is.
I’ll let it be. I’ll trust my intuition to guide me through whatever comes up. My purpose here is to evolve my soul. I believe it’s everyone’s, but if it’s not recognized on a human level by someone else, even a twin flame, it doesn’t make any difference to me.
Since we don’t talk, ever now, which is so weird really after communicating constantly all day every day, except when we were in a push away phase, I have no idea where his head is at. It’s been since November 19 that I have talked to him. Since the weight of the lies fell out of his mouth and onto my heart, and as he asked me to lie for him, to become what he was, and I had to tell him he was dead to me.
He is not dead to me, as a soul. His current choices, as a human, made him dead to me. Until he can grow, and change. I have wondered when I will hear from him again, thinking in months maybe. Because I have been sure I will at some point. But now? Maybe not for years. Maybe not until we move on from this life.
It doesn’t matter anyway. My life moves on, the way it was. The path was moving forward nicely, and then he showed up and I stumbled and lost myself, spun arouand and around, because there were some lessons I needed to learn, and now my life goes on.
My friend to whom I gave Reiki texted me last night to tell me that the issue she had that brought her to me yesterday, had taken on a whole, different feeling. The issue has to do with her sister, and is ongoing. They talked, they both laughed, good healing belly laughs. The issue remains, but my friend was able to support her sister, and lift her. I was delighted.
My friend also has issues with her ankle. It hurts her often and a lot. She said it was killing her when she got here. Last night she said she forgot about it, there was no pain from it at all. I’m sure it’s not gone, the issue with her ankle, but I’m so happy she had some relief.
It is satisfying to be able to help people. To reach outside my own issues, and leave them be. To make a deeper connection with people close to me.
I found a great site for guided free meditations. https://www.tarabrach.com/guided-meditations/ I did one this morning that was on “knowing”. Takes you very deep, to rest in your knowing. I found some peace there. My solar plexus was very tight when I got there. I did self-reiki on it, while I did the meditation. It feels fine now.
I guess that the tightness was caused by left over emotions from last night’s twin flame revelation. Right now, it means nothing, because we are apart, as we were before, and it’s not my job to wait for him to catch up, as my medium friend said. It’s his to catch up. He doesn’t listen to his soul much, he doesn’t think he has one, or doesn’t think it’s connected to the loving energy of the universe.
People will make any excuse for bad behavior won’t they? If you can believe you are not connected then I suppose that gives you free rein to do whatever the heck your narcissistic ego tells you to.
Not my problem. It doesn’t matter. I won’t bump into him again, unless he matures.